Dear Brothers and Sisters!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Allah (swt) has created the worldly life in order to test mankind and chose parents as a means for us to come to this life. Since our father Adam and our mother Hawwa, many parents\u2019 paths have crossed, bringing souls into bodies and uniting their lives.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Allah (swt), who created humans, has commanded us to be grateful to Him, and also commanded us to be grateful to our parents who are the means of our existence in this world by saying: \u201cGive thanks to Me and to your parents.\u201d[1]<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Islam places such great importance on the rights of parents that in many verses of the Qur\u2019an, after commanding us to worship Allah (swt), it immediately emphasises treating our parents well. Indeed, in the verse that we have recited at the beginning of our khutba, Allah (swt) says the following: \u201cFor your Lord has decreed that you worship none but Him. And honour your parents. If one or both of them reach old age in your care, never say to them <\/strong>\u2018Uff<\/strong>\u2019 nor yell at them. Rather, address them respectfully..\u201d[2]<\/a><\/strong> In another verse Allah (swt) mentions: \u201cSay, <\/strong>\u02f9<\/strong>O Prophet,<\/strong>\u02fa<\/strong> \u201cCome! Let me recite to you what your Lord has forbidden to you: do not associate others with Him <\/strong>\u02f9<\/strong>in worship<\/strong>\u02fa<\/strong>. <\/strong>\u02f9<\/strong>Do not fail to<\/strong>\u02fa<\/strong> honour your parents.\u201d<\/strong>[3]<\/a> One day, the Messenger of Allah (saw) asked his companions three times, \u201cShall I inform you about the greatest of major sins?\u201d The noble companions replied, \u201cYes, O Messenger of Allah.\u201d Then he said, \u201cAssociating partners with Allah, disobedience to parents, and causing harm to others.\u201d[4]<\/strong><\/a><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Dear Jama\u2019ah!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Making parents pleased is so important that even Allah\u2019s pleasure is connected to it. The Messenger of Allah (saw) expressed this truth as follows: \u201cThe pleasure of your Lord is tied to the pleasure of your parents, and the anger of your Lord is tied to the anger of your parents.\u201d<\/em>[5]<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n A believer is someone who treats all creatures with kindness. However, the ones who deserve this kindness the most are one\u2019s own parents. In fact, this reality is expressed in another hadith narrated by Ibn Mas\u2019ud (ra), where it is stated: A man asked the Prophet (saw), \u201cWhich deed is the most virtuous?\u201d The Prophet replied, \u201cPerforming the prayer at its appointed time and being kind to one\u2019s parents. Then, striving in the cause of Allah comes next.\u201d Just as a person\u2019s happiness in this world is dependent on how they treat their parents, their success in the hereafter is also dependent on it. The Messenger of Allah (saw) said: \u201cParents are one of the main gates that lead to Paradise. It is up to you whether you seize the opportunity to enter through this gate or let it slip away.\u201d<\/em>[6]<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n Dear Brothers and Sisters!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Our scholars, based on numerous verses and hadiths that command kindness towards parents and prohibit ill-treatment, have explained in detail the duties that a believer has towards their parents. Among these responsibilities, the prominent ones are as follows: Being cheerful and kind in behaviour towards parents, never causing them any harm, fulfilling their reasonable requests that are not contrary to the religion, seeking to making them happy, refraining from speaking loudly in their presence, providing for them if they are in financial difficulties, willingly serving them when they become dependent due to illness or old age, and not even uttering a word of disrespect towards them. Even after the passing of our parents, there are duties we should fulfill for them. The foremost among them include remembering them with mercy, praying for them, engaging in acts of goodness and charity on their behalf, fulfilling their lawful bequests, showing kindness to their friends, and refraining from behaviours that would lead to speaking ill of them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n May Allah (swt) grant health and well-being to our living parents and make us among those who treat them well and attain the status of being righteous children, as commanded by Allah (swt) and advised by the Messenger of Allah. May Allah (swt) bestow His mercy upon those of our parents who have passed away. Ameen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n [1]<\/a> Surah Luqman, 31:14<\/p>\n\n\n\n [2]<\/a> Surah Al-Isra, 17:23<\/p>\n\n\n\n [3]<\/a> Surah Al-An\u2019am, 60:151<\/p>\n\n\n\n [4]<\/a> Buh\u00e2r\u00ee, Edeb, 6<\/p>\n\n\n\n [5]<\/a> Tirmiz\u00ee, Birr, 3<\/p>\n\n\n\n [6]<\/a> Tirmiz\u00ee, Birr, 3<\/p>\n\n\n\n K\u0131ymetli M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlar!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Rabbimiz, insano\u011flunu s\u0131namak i\u00e7in bir s\u00fcreli\u011fine d\u00fcnya hayat\u0131n\u0131 var etmi\u015f ve anne babay\u0131 bu hayata geli\u015fimize vesile olarak se\u00e7mi\u015ftir. Bir can\u0131n bedene b\u00fcr\u00fcnmesi i\u00e7in \u00c2dem babam\u0131z ve Havva annemizden beri nice anne baban\u0131n yollar\u0131n\u0131 kesi\u015ftirmi\u015f, hayatlar\u0131n\u0131 birle\u015ftirmi\u015ftir.\u0130nsan\u0131 yoktan yaratan Rabbimiz, kendisine \u015f\u00fckredilmesini emretti\u011fi gibi d\u00fcnyaya gelmemize vesile olan anne ve babam\u0131za da \u015f\u00fckretmemizi emrederek \u015f\u00f6yle buyurmu\u015ftur: \u201cBana ve ana-babana \u015f\u00fckret.\u201d[1]<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Y\u00fcce dinimiz, anne ve baba hakk\u0131n\u0131 o derece \u00f6nemsemektedir ki Kur\u2019an\u2019\u0131n bir\u00e7ok ayetinde Rabbimize kulluk etmek emredildikten sonra ikinci s\u0131rada anne ve babam\u0131za iyi davranmak emredilir. Nitekim hutbemizin ba\u015f\u0131nda okudu\u011fumuz \u00e2yet-i cel\u00eelede y\u00fcce Rabbimiz mealen \u015f\u00f6yle buyurmaktad\u0131r:\u201cRabbin, sadece kendisine kulluk etmenizi, ana-baban\u0131za da iyi davranman\u0131z\u0131 kesin bir \u015fekilde emretti. Onlardan biri veya her ikisi senin yan\u0131nda ya\u015flan\u0131rsa, kendilerine \u2018\u00f6f\u2019 bile deme; onlar\u0131 azarlama; ikisine de g\u00fczel s\u00f6z s\u00f6yle.\u201d[2] <\/a><\/strong>Bir ba\u015fka ayette ise Rabbimiz: \u201cDe ki: Gelin Rabbinizin size neleri haram k\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 okuyay\u0131m: Ona hi\u00e7bir \u015feyi ortak ko\u015fmay\u0131n, ana-babaya iyilik edin.\u201d<\/strong>[3]<\/a> diye buyurmu\u015ftur. Allah Resul\u00fc (s.a.v.) bir g\u00fcn ashab\u0131na \u201cSize b\u00fcy\u00fck g\u00fcnahlar\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc s\u00f6yleyeyim mi?\u201d<\/em> diye \u00fc\u00e7 kez sordu. Bunun \u00fczerine ash\u00e2b-\u0131 kir\u00e2m, \u201cEvet, ey Allah\u2019\u0131n Res\u00fbl\u00fc.\u201d diye cevap verdi. Ard\u0131ndan, \u201cAllah\u2019a ortak ko\u015fmak ve anne babaya isyan etmek ve eziyet etmektir.\u201d[4]<\/strong><\/a><\/em> diye buyurdu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n De\u011ferli Cemaat!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Anne-babay\u0131 raz\u0131 etmek o derece \u00f6nemlidir ki Allah\u2019\u0131n raz\u0131 olmas\u0131 bile buna ba\u011flanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Allah Resul\u00fc de bu ger\u00e7e\u011fi \u015f\u00f6yle dile getirmi\u015ftir: \u201cRabbin ho\u015fnutlu\u011fu anne baban\u0131n ho\u015fnutlu\u011funa ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r. Rabbin \u00f6fkesi ise anne baban\u0131n \u00f6fkesine ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r.\u201d<\/em>[5]<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n M\u00fcmin, Rabbinin yaratt\u0131\u011f\u0131 b\u00fct\u00fcn mahlukata iyi davranan kimsedir. Bu iyi davranmay\u0131 en \u00e7ok hak eden ise ki\u015finin anne ve babas\u0131d\u0131r. Nitekim bu ger\u00e7eklik \u0130bn Mes\u2019\u00fbd (r.a.)\u2019\u0131n rivayet etti\u011fi bir ba\u015fka had\u00ees-i \u015ferifte \u015f\u00f6yle ifade edilmektedir: Bir adam Hz. Peygamber\u2019e \u201cAmellerin en \u00fcst\u00fcn\u00fc hangisidir?\u201d diye sorunca Peygamber Efendimiz \u015f\u00f6yle cevap verdi: \u201cVaktinde k\u0131l\u0131nan namaz ve anne babaya iyilik etmektir. Sonra da Allah yolunda cihat etmek gelir.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0130nsan\u0131n d\u00fcnyadaki mutlulu\u011fu anne-babas\u0131na nas\u0131l davrand\u0131\u011f\u0131na ba\u011fl\u0131 oldu\u011fu gibi uhrevi kurtulu\u015f veya h\u00fcsran\u0131 da buna ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r. Res\u00fblullah (s.a.v.) \u015f\u00f6yle buyurmu\u015ftur: \u201cAnne baba, ki\u015finin cennete girmesine vesile olacak ana kap\u0131lardan birisidir. Bu kap\u0131dan girme f\u0131rsat\u0131n\u0131 kaybetmek ya da de\u011ferlendirmek art\u0131k senin arzuna kalm\u0131\u015f!\u201d<\/em>[6]<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n Muhterem M\u00fcminler!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Anne-babaya iyilik yapmay\u0131 emreden, onlara k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fck yapmay\u0131 yasaklayan onlarca ayet ve hadisten yola \u00e7\u0131kan \u00e2limlerimiz, bir m\u00fcminin anne ve babas\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 yerine getirmekle y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fc oldu\u011fu g\u00f6revleri ayr\u0131nt\u0131l\u0131 bir \u015fekilde a\u00e7\u0131klam\u0131\u015flard\u0131r. Bu vazifeler aras\u0131nda en \u00f6ne \u00e7\u0131kanlar \u015funlard\u0131r:<\/p>\n\n\n\n Anne ve babaya kar\u015f\u0131 g\u00fcler y\u00fczl\u00fc ve tatl\u0131 dilli olmak, hi\u00e7bir \u015fekilde incitmemek, dine ayk\u0131r\u0131 olmayan isteklerini yerine getirmek, onlar\u0131 memnun etmek, yanlar\u0131nda y\u00fcksek sesle konu\u015fmamak, ge\u00e7im s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131 i\u00e7inde iseler ge\u00e7imlerini sa\u011flamak, hastal\u0131k ve ya\u015fl\u0131l\u0131k sebebiyle hizmete muhta\u00e7 h\u00e2le geldiklerinde seve seve kendilerine hizmet etmek, onlara \u201c\u00f6f\u201d bile dememek.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Anne ve babalar\u0131m\u0131z \u00f6ld\u00fckten sonra da onlar i\u00e7in yapmam\u0131z gereken vazifeler bulunmaktad\u0131r. Bunlar aras\u0131nda en \u00f6nde gelenleri \u015funlard\u0131r: Onlar\u0131 rahmetle anmak, dua etmek, onlar ad\u0131na hay\u0131r ve hasenatta bulunmak, me\u015fru olan vasiyetlerini yerine getirmek, dostlar\u0131na iyilik etmek ve onlara k\u00f6t\u00fc s\u00f6z s\u00f6ylenmesine sebep olacak davran\u0131\u015flardan sak\u0131nmak.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Rabbimiz hayatta olan anne ve babalar\u0131m\u0131za s\u0131hhat ve afiyetler ihsan eylesin ve bizleri, Rabbimizin emretti\u011fi ve Allah Resul\u00fc\u2019n\u00fcn tavsiye etti\u011fi \u015fekilde onlara iyi davranan, hay\u0131rl\u0131 evlat olma payesine eri\u015fenlerden eylesin. Rabbimiz vefat etmi\u015f anne ve babalar\u0131m\u0131za rahmet eylesin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n [1]<\/a> Lokm\u00e2n suresi, 31:14<\/p>\n\n\n\n [2]<\/a> \u0130sr\u00e2 suresi, 17:23<\/p>\n\n\n\n [3]<\/a> En\u02bb\u00e2m suresi, 60:151<\/p>\n\n\n\n [4]<\/a> Buh\u00e2r\u00ee, Edeb, 6<\/p>\n\n\n\n [5]<\/a> Tirmiz\u00ee, Birr, 3<\/p>\n\n\n\n [6]<\/a> Tirmiz\u00ee, Birr, 3<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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Konu: Ana-Baba Hakk\u0131<\/h4>\n\n\n\n